What should I do when she comes over to cook together?
Me and this girl have become friends over the past semester. I am a med student, and she is pre med. So anyway, we’ve become friends. We get along really well. She thinks my friends are cool. We’ve spent time alone and open up to each other easily.
Lately I think we’ve been getting closer. Like she seems a little more playful. Maybe it’s just me. But anyway, I told her I had learned to cook, and she was excited. She said that I should demonstrate for her. One thing lead to another, and when break is over she is coming over and we are going to cook dinner for each other.
Here’s the thing. Neither of us have ever been in a relationship. We aren’t kids. Just both kinda shy and busy. I don’t think either of us is good at sending signals or reading them. I don’t even know if she really likes me.
I want this dinner to go well. So I chose a new recipe to make for her. I’ve asked the roommates to be out for the evening. I have something nice to wear. And I was planning on us watching a movie together, like before dessert or something.
Is there anything else I should or shouldn’t do? What can I do to find out if she is interested in me or not?
That sounds really cozy and prefect. I think you should make something fun, with a lot of spices and then a really messy dessert, so it will be cute when she has powder all over her face!
You shouldn’t act like it isn’t a date. Show your feelings subtly. Flirt with her, let her catch you looking at her in a ‘I think you’re beautiful way’ and try to flirt. Since you don’t have much experience, you might feel awkward. Just touch her, not super sexually, just lightly on the shoulder or push her hair out of her face. Make her feel wanted!
I don’t think there’s anything else you can add to the date, because since you aren’t together yet, you don’t want to do anything too extravagant.
You sound like a really great guy! This girl is lucky. =) And she obviously likes you if she’s coming over to your house alone.
January 11th, 2010 at 2:54 pm
Relationships are kinda like cooking, if you turn the heat up too high, stuff will boil over, burn or get ruined.
If you simmer, the flavors have time to blend, and the food is much more enjoyable.
Be respectful of her, don’t hide your interest, spend time with her and let nature take it course
Luck
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January 11th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
That sounds really cozy and prefect. I think you should make something fun, with a lot of spices and then a really messy dessert, so it will be cute when she has powder all over her face!
You shouldn’t act like it isn’t a date. Show your feelings subtly. Flirt with her, let her catch you looking at her in a ‘I think you’re beautiful way’ and try to flirt. Since you don’t have much experience, you might feel awkward. Just touch her, not super sexually, just lightly on the shoulder or push her hair out of her face. Make her feel wanted!
I don’t think there’s anything else you can add to the date, because since you aren’t together yet, you don’t want to do anything too extravagant.
You sound like a really great guy! This girl is lucky. =) And she obviously likes you if she’s coming over to your house alone.
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January 11th, 2010 at 3:52 pm
Just relax and be yourself. She already likes you or she would not be coming for dinner in the first place. No woman is going to take time to be with a man if she doesn’t like him. She likes you already. Just the way you are so don’t go changing. You already please her.
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January 11th, 2010 at 4:23 pm
well it sounds like you are on the right track and I think she definatly likes you and you like her too. Good luck with that its always nice to take things slow, I would suggest to smell good theres nothing like a man that looks good and sweet and all but smell good wow that is a plus, Good luck I think your night will be great
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January 11th, 2010 at 5:01 pm
Just enjoy the evening. You sound like you enjoy each other’s company. Just take it slow…..after dinner ask her if she wants to watch a movie. Get a little close. Tell her that you are enjoying yourself. If everything goes well tell her that you would like to do it again but maybe suggest a restaurant.
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January 11th, 2010 at 5:06 pm
you say: if i asked you out on a date would you say yes or no and why. or you say to her: do u like me ?
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January 11th, 2010 at 5:40 pm
I think that you are doing exactly what you need to do. I mean you are taking things slow and being her friend first instead of trying to get in her pants (and I am pretty sure that she appreciates that to). As far as finding out if she is interested in you….I don think that you need to do anything to try and find out if she is interested in you because its obvious that there is some interest in you there because she is spending time with you….if she wasnt interested in you she would not be wasting her time with you…and thats just the bottom line…Well hope this helps…Good Luck!
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January 11th, 2010 at 6:14 pm
That all sounds perfect to me, but I would suggest the movie after dessert, that way she wont be left feeling like she has to watch the movie or she wont get dessert. (not that she’d think that way but you want her to stay and watch a movie with you because she chose to).
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January 11th, 2010 at 6:52 pm
you have the perfect scenario, clean slates, sounds like she likes you, make sure you let her know that you don’t want her as a friend, show confidence, make her laugh, and treat her like a lady, good luck,
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January 11th, 2010 at 7:17 pm
Don’t do a ‘new’ recipe. Do something that you know well and won’t make mistakes on. Also try to hit that after you eat.
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